Why Do Good Girls Like Bad Guys

Guys have been asking this question since the beginning of time (or at least I think so) so here it is from my P.O.V. (Point of View) of course. Now some may disagree but I am one to give it to you straight no chaser. Buckle your seatbeats cuz we are in for a bumpy ride.

Question: Okay I was asked by a gentleman "Why is it that woman say they want a good man but they continue to mess with the "bad" boys? Okay women, lets be honest since we were little girls we were always told that we need to find Prince Charming in order to live happily ever after. Cinderella found him, Snow White, Sleeping Beauty, shit even Belle turned her beast into a kind loving prince. But those are just make believe. Is there really a such thing as a good man. I mean don't get me wrong even man has the potential to be a good man but things in his life turn him in other directions. As far as women finding and keeping a good man well thats another blog ( coming soon). Okay lets get back on subject.

I'm not gonna speak for every woman because every woman is not as honest and brutal as I am but from my experiences in life, good men are hard to find. There is no perfect man out there each one comes with their own emotional scars and issues that they need to work through. For me I guess its easy to pick the bad ones because you don't expect to much from there. You know they are not going to hokd your hand in public, maybe they will caall you maybe they won't. You get used to routines, but then when you come across a potential good man you never recognize them. They usually aren't the guys that you expect. They are the guys that call you just to see how you are doing, or the ones you can call when you are having a bad day or because your "boyfriend" is being a complete asshole. We push these guys off to the side because we consider them "weak" or just like one of the girls. They hang around hoping that we will finally notice them but by the time that we do they have already moved on to someone else.

Many of us know who the good men are but they are no longer interested. At the time they were able to take us with our emotional baggage and flows and all. But now that we realized what we have passed on we beat ourselves up and just start the cycle over and over again, one bad guy after another. Eventually we will kiss enough frogs and finally find our prince. But only after we have come to terms with the flaws and bad decisions in life will we be able to live Happily Ever After with Our Prince Charming.

I just hope I haven't blown my chance with my potential Prince Charming.