Free Your Mind And The Rest Will Follow

Okay so the year is off to an okay start but I refuse to enjoy a new year with old bullshit on my mind. I decided this is the forum to spill it all out.I have learned a lot of lessons last year and I feel like I need to share this one with you guys (or whoever reads my blog ). Lets start :

Friends
Not everyone you meet has your best interest in heart, some people are just selfish assholes who use you to get what they need out of life.
When I consider someone my friend it never crosses my mind to use them or treat them like shit. Case in point, I had a friend who is married we would kick it on occasion and go to happy hours, shopping, you know the usual girl stuff. It was great actually having a female friend that I can talk to and bounce ideas off of. Well little did I know I was the part of an elaborate plan.
I never understood why her husband would always look at me funny or be concerned when he learned me and his wife were going to hang for the night until it became clear that our trips to the mall, or happy hours was just a front to tell her husband she was with me and giving her the opportunity to flirt and fuck other niggas. Blame everything on the "single" friend who likes to party huh???
It didn't become clear to me until the unevitable happened and she sexed my friend on my bed right next to me. No shame in her game right. I mean they were two grown consenting adults but don't use me as the fall guy to your spouse. Ya feel me!!!
To me its a one time thing nothing to be worried or concerned about, but when that same dude starts poppin up in the same places we are at thats a red flag right there. To each its own cheat to your heart is content but keep my name out of your mouth and don't use me as an excuse when you get caught and hang my black ass out to dry.

Lesson Learned
Real friends come a dime a dozen and will have your back no matter what. But when or if you grow apart let it go. You've learned all you can from the situation and its time to move on. That is what I did, I never snitched to your husband about how your a lying slut maybe that was another friend. I bear no hard feelings or ill will but I can no longer look at you in the same light so I choose not to look at you or communicate with you in any way shape or form. Good luck with your life and I hope you learned your lesson that dick is not worth ruining a marriage. you have two kids now, try to be a good mother to your daughter and son and a better wife to your husband.