Playing Your Position: Should You Stay or Should You Go

So in listening to Pleasure P's latest hit: "Boyfriend # 2" people have been asking me what do you think Nicole? What can I say I have been in this situation and from both ends. I have been someone's number 2 and also have kept a spare on the side (in case of emergencies).
Like all situations having a number two requires rules that must be followed at all times. I will provide a few samples for your reading pleasures:

1) Once a number two always a number. There is no such thing as moving up when you play second fiddle. This rule should be established immediately, no need in false hope or playing with emotions.
2) You were chosen for one reason or another. For instance the main relationship may almost be perfect but you can contribute to what is missing. Do not mistake this for love it is what it is.
3) There are no perks to being a number two, you will play the sideline for as long as you can handle it. Forcing your hand may or will result in termination of positon.
4) Keep in mind just because you are called the number 2 does not mean that you are the only one. If we could find all the qualities we are looking for in our main boo there would be no need for you.
5) Sex with the number two is usually good because all inhibitions go out the door. You might not have sex with that person often so when you do it must I repeat must be mind blowing. If it slacks then we might just rethink why you are the replacement in the first place
6) There is no kissing, no unprotected sex, and definitely no dates in areas where you can be recogonized.

Now tell yourself after reading some of the requirements why in the hell would you want to subject yourself to that. No man or woman is that amazing that would make you lower your self worth just for a chance to be with them. They are never gonna leave their partner no matter what they say to you. And by chance if they do leave there partner how long do you think it would last with you. Shit, he/she is cheating on their partner with you what makes you think they will or want to change. You are setting yourself up for failure.

There are a lot of people looking for love in all the wrong places. Why waste your love and most importantly your time on someone who doesn't care. Wouldn't you rather be alone than being used like a piece of meat and then thrown away. Especially the woman!!! My next blog is dedicated to the baby mommas, the main girls and the women on the side.

In closing let me just say there is no dick or pussy in the world that should make you the butt of jokes or the object of songs. Don't get Pleasure P wrong, Number 2's are there for a reason but before you make a decision just ask yourself: Is It Really Worth It?